Pamela Stoner-Gay

Being fabulous over forty means embracing my health, mental state, and spiritual growth with confidence and grace. As a mother, wife, profes

   

Placed 8th

in the Quarter-Finals

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What is Fab Over 40?

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What do you love about being over 40?

What I love most about being over 40 is the sense of purpose that comes with it. I’ve grown into a timeless beauty who confidently embraces being the best version of myself, unapologetically. Being over 40 means thinking independently, voting for those who can create real change, and feeling empowered in my skin. I stand tall, walk with confidence, and feel at ease in everything I wear. At this stage in life, I take pride in being smart, glamorous, and creative. I’ve learned to balance the many

How do you stay fabulous?

How I Stay Fabulous Over 40 Staying fabulous over 40 is about maintaining a positive attitude and embracing the beauty of everyday life. I believe positivity is contagious, and I make it a point to spread it wherever I go. A simple compliment can brighten someone’s day, and I love offering words of kindness and encouragement to others. By doing so, I not only uplift those around me, but I also keep my spirit light and joyful. I’m deeply passionate about giving back to my community, even amid

What would you do with the $40,000?

Winning the $40,000 from the Fabulous Over 40 contest would be an incredible opportunity for me. As the daughter of Dr. Peter Stoner, an original Freedom Rider and American hero, and an African American mother, I’ve grown up with powerful examples of resilience, love, and community service. My parents have been married for over 50 years, and throughout their lives, they have taught me the value of giving back and helping others. With this prize money, I would remodel my parents' original home i

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