Pamela Meadows

What do you love about being over 40?

There is a built-in clause that continues to get bigger and refuses to put up with drama. It just doesn't have a place in my life, there's no room. I pick and choose what I put up with, and there's not any BS in it, and I love it that way. If people don't like that, oh well. It's not worth my time or my effort to deal with it. I am more confident to pick and choose what I want to deal with without the repercussion of backlash and it not bother me at all.

How do you stay fabulous?

I honestly don't do enough for myself. I just started taking better care of myself in the last year. I go get massages and a facial here and there. I am meditating and exercising more. I am doing more things to clear my mind and take better care of my skin. I try my best to uplift other women and listen to any woman who is not having a good day and trying to talk to me about it. I think that it is important for us to be there for one another.

What would you do with the $40,000?

I would put some up for my 50th birthday to ensure that I get to go on my dream birthday vacation. I want to go to the Maldives for my 50th birthday, so I will make a downpayment or go ahead and pay for that vacation now. I would pay off bills and share some of the money. My son had an accident during his freshman year of college and almost died. The Ronald McDonald House was really there for us so we would donate to them as well.