At 45, I’m thriving as an author, business owner, festival founder, and proud Matriarch, facing neuroblastoma with unshakable strength!
We would like to thank you for supporting Melissa Jolly Graves in this year's competition. Your support helps us contribute to the National Breast Cancer Foundation who provides early detection, education, and support services to those affected by breast cancer.
What I love about being 45 is the confidence, wisdom, and deeper self-assurance that come with age. At this stage in life, I’ve gained self-grace and understanding that has anchored me in my marriage and career. With my youngest now 18, I’m stepping into a new chapter where mom can start traveling more. I embrace who I’ve become, living with purpose and passion. Reflecting on my journey fills me with gratitude, knowing I’ve built a meaningful life while still looking forward to new adventures.
How do you stay fabulous?I stay fabulous by embracing the power of natural healing—using herbs, fever baths, sweat lodges, and oxygen therapy to fight cancer. I thrive on faith, hope, and love, always stepping up to help anyone in need. Loving my job, hanging with family and friends, and limiting phone use keeps me grounded and fulfilled. My spirituality is my anchor—when my body and mind are weak, my spirit rises strong. With my spirit in full bloom, I feel unstoppable, ready to take on any challenge life throws at me
What would you do with the $40,000?I would first pay for my PET scans to monitor the growth of my cancer. I would also invest in expanding my healing research center to deepen the exploration of the connection between science, spirituality, and natural healing methods. Additionally, I’d support environmental projects, such as my mushroom initiative to clean oil spills. Finally, I’d buy a used van to travel with my family and explore life’s possibilities together, savoring the moments and adventures along the way.
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