Chastity Lopez

My confidence in myself. I’ve changed so much over the years. In my 20’s, I was such a people pleaser. In my 30’s, I was trying to figure out who I was as a woman as well as a mother and a wife. In my 40’s, I know who I am and I am confident in my own skin. I am more focused on giving back to the community and being a positive role model to the younger generation. I’m unapologetically me and I love that for me! I love supporting other woman and lifting them up. I love being a woman!!

Self love and care are so important as a woman. Sometimes we are so busy taking care of everyone else we don’t leave anything left for us. I take time to myself. A hot bubble bath and a face mask, going for a fabulous pedicure or a wonderful massage are winners as well. It’s so important to not feel guilty about detaching from the world for a bit and recharging your batteries! We as women give so much, so it’s nice to remember yourself whenever you can.

In my 30’s I went through a rough divorce and I made a decision to sell the home I had raised my family in to put myself back through college. It was a tough choice but the right one for me. I knew one day I’d be able to buy another home. My Mom passed away almost two years ago and between burying her and helping my Dad with all of his expenses and life in general I haven’t been able to save enough to buy another home. That’s my dream, to be a homeowner again so that’s what I’d do if I won! ❤️❤️